*** Your hands possess a wonderful touch and I loved being on your table...
*** I've been thinking about my Bondassage and Elysium experiences quite a bit & there are moments I still don't believe it. :)
Like many people, I am not unfamiliar with traditional massages and have had a number of them over the years. I'm also not new to, or entirely unfamiliar with bondage. So when I heard about Bondassage, the combination sounded delightfully intriguing to me.
However, I have not been one to feel open or comfortable around someone other than my partner. So, as much as I was curious about potentially experiencing a Bondassage (&/or maybe even an Elysium) session, my fears and insecurities held me hostage.
After a lot of indecisiveness, I finally (and firmly) decided to lock my insecurities in a box and take a chance. I contacted you.
You replied to me with kindness and reassurance, and set about thoughtfully and patiently answering all my many questions and concerns. Several messages back & forth, and a few phone calls later, I eventually, nervously & with some residual trepidation, placed myself in your hands, having opted for a Bondassage session.
I truly appreciated how you took the time to explain – in both your profile and in our conversations – your massage techniques, point of view/approach as well as yourself.
Once I was in your Studio I don't know why, but I began to relax. I think it may have been your friendly demeanour, kindness, patience & understanding, and your honesty, openness and respectful approach which I responded to (in what for me, was a complex process), and which suddenly made almost all my nerves vanish.
I felt a lovely sense of anticipation. I still had a tiny case of nerves – but nowhere even close to what I had felt previously. All the other nervous emotional baggage just slipped away. The sense of panic or embarrassment I expected – never materialized. I was starting to feel calm. In fact, even being nude did not prove to be the awkward-feeling hurdle I believed it would be. I felt safe & excited. Everything felt very fluid and natural to me.
It really was amazing! Thank you, for such a positive, sensual and pleasurable experience. Thank you for helping a very nervous person take a chance to step outside her old comfort zone, to begin to explore kink interests in ways she wanted to, yet was too afraid to before.
As I've said, I was struck by your level of openness and honesty, and by the genuine care which came through in your words as you acknowledged and addressed my concerns & feelings.
My first experience was in a thousand different ways, way more fun than I expected. And it was a thousand times less intimidating and frightening than I was anticipating.
My Bondassage experience was a VERY positive experience for me.
Then, I experienced an Elysium session. OH!. MY!! GOODNESS!!! (aka HOLY FUUUUCK!!!)
My Elysium session was everything the Bondassage session was and more – it was absolutely mind-blowing!!
It really was deliciously slow, erotic, sensual and sexy. I was not expecting or prepared for the wonderful, intense, incredibly powerful, & almost overwhelming response my Elysium session gave me. I had one of the most incredible orgasms of my life...!
Throughout this entire experience with Bondassage and Elysium, every question, concern and fear was respectfully and carefully addressed. Your patience was endless. Your concern that I felt heard and understood never faltered. Your answers and actions made it easy to remain sure of my decision and feel confident I would enjoy myself, and above all - feel safe.
Deciding to give Bondassage and Elysium a try is one of the best decisions I have ever made. For me personally, these experiences have made it possible for some positive changes to begin to come in to my life.